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| bdsm how to guide: How to Be Kinky Morpheous, 2012-11-13 How to be Kinky is a primer on the multi-faceted world of kink and getting into BDSM play. It is for beginners and novices, couples and singles. Morpheous' comprehensive guide to kink addresses all aspects of kinky play, such as how to turn bedrooms into a den of iniquity, how to maintain physical and emotional safety during play and proper protocols and etiquette at fetish events. Fully updated, this enhanced second edition is reworked in full-colour, with gorgeous and sexy photos, as well as 15 easy to follow photo essays. |
| bdsm how to guide: How to Be Kinky Morpheous, 2008-05 A primer on the multi-faceted world of kink and an introduction to BDSM. Popular sex educator Morpheous all aspects of enhancing sex lives with kinky play. Singles and couples who are new to the scene will appreciate material on the basics of BDSM play and role playing, with advice on how to turn a bedroom into a den of iniquity. |
| bdsm how to guide: BDSM Primer Elizabeth Cramer, 2015-03-03 BDSM is a whole different world where people speak in their own formal and informal language, have rules and social norms, and create expectations based on everything from names to symbols you employ. As a sex educator and an active member in the BDSM community, I found most information floating around to be inaccurate and some even unhealthy. As a primer this guide will demystify the world of BDSM and present it in a straightforward and easy-to-understand way to you. This guide is more than just a list of who and what. It is a map that will take you into the heart of the BDSM lifestyle, explore the motivations and expectations, and offer suggestions for the safe and sensual journey you are undertaking. In BDSM Primer for Women, you will learn: - The vocabulary, roles, and rituals - The reasons you may want to participate in this lifestyle - Ways and places to get started - Safety concerns and legal issues - Emotions, consequences, and actions - What actions meet what needs - What kinds of fetishes meet what kinds of needs - How to communicate healthfully - How to create your sexual self - And much more... |
| bdsm how to guide: Bdsm. Bdsm Guide. a Bdsm Book, an Introduction to the Lifestyle Katya Roberts, 2017-09-23 Incredible things happen when going down the imagination lane, but what happens when imagination becomes a picture perfect situation due to creativity? Where does your mind wander when thinking about the intimacy of you and your partner? This book is all about enhancing one's range of skills in a bedroom and getting a close look on BDSM side of things. The true BDSM side of things. This book clarifies all the already answered questions and gives answers to those that aren't answered yet. The cohesion of guidelines and ideas ready for taking make it outstanding compared to others out there. It's about getting to know yourself, your partner and a wonderful new world is waiting for you to explore. Are you ready to dive right in? If yes, then what's stopping you from starting right now? Covered In This Book: - Basics of safe playing - Bondage - Consent - Don't be labelled - Etiquette - Having fun - How to's - Live up to the role - Never assume - Never ending role play - Possisble Dom-Sub rules - Spanking - Surprise beginnings - Techniques - The help of toys - Ways to tip up your partner ..... and much more |
| bdsm how to guide: Guide to BDSM Donna Prince, 2020-04-16 You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of pain we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of Guide to BDSM ! Check also the others Sex Life Tips books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master |
| bdsm how to guide: The Ultimate Guide to Kink Tristan Taormino, 2012-03-01 The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the first major guide to BDSM in a generation—a bold and sexy collection of essays that run the gamut from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure. The book brings together diverse voices from the kink community in an unprecedented way: each chapter is written by a different sexuality/BDSM educator. Divided into two sections, the first section features thorough, thoughtful pieces—on everything from flogging to bondage—packed with techniques and beautifully illustrated with original images from artist Katie Diamond. The second section is dedicated to role-playing fantasies and personal manifestos. From age play to masochism, these chapters cover some of the edgiest, most taboo and controversial elements of kink in depth. The Ultimate Guide to Kink features the expertise of renowned educators writing passionately on their favorite subjects, including Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young, Hardy Haberman, Felice Shays, Ignacio Rivera, Sarah Sloane, Mollena Williams, FifthAngel, and Edge. It will educate, inspire, and challenge both newcomers to the world of kink and experienced BDSM players. |
| bdsm how to guide: BDSM Basics for Beginners - A Guide for Dominants and Submissives Starting to Explore the Lifestyle Michelle Fegatofi, 2013-03-14 You have been drawn to the world of BDSM, but searching for one book to give you an overview of both Dominance and Submission. This book provides you with descriptions of all roles, different BDSM relationships, commonly used terms, guidelines for roles and responsibilities, and much more. After reading this book, you should have a well rounded foundation to start your journey further into the ever changing world that is known as BDSM. |
| bdsm how to guide: BDSM Guide For New Doms Edward Boyle, 2021-11-04 If you have just discovered the world of BDSM and kink and want to learn how to be the perfect Dom, then this guide is for you. But why would anyone need a book to know how to be a Dom? Well, there are many reasons. If you are going to be a good Dom and not just any Dom, you need to learn how to dominate your sub mentally, physically, and sexually. Sadly, many Doms only know about physical domination, which they don't even do well. You have likely seen porn clips where a lady is bound and the male teases, spanks, and forces himself on her. You probably seemed to like it and thought that was what being a Dom was all about. The truth is - if all you do is to tie someone to your bed and have sex with them, you cannot call yourself a Dom. As said earlier, there is more that goes into Domming than that. Luckily, this guide will take you by the hand and introduce you to all the intricacies that are involved in being a perfect Dom. You will learn how to dominate her physically, sexually, and psychologically. This is the knowledge that you won't find elsewhere. That said, let's get started... |
| bdsm how to guide: Vanilla to Kinky Sdfsdf Sdf, Jonathan Wolf, 2019-05-18 Do you want to stay in the same vanilla sex routine forever? Or are you ready to bring more pleasure and excitement to your sex life starting today? What do you think when you hear BDSM? I'll tell you what most people think. Most people think whips, chains, pain, and crying. They think only evil or mentally ill people enjoy these types of things. They think of the most corrupt things they can because of the way that mainstream media misrepresents BDSM. BDSM is has become more popular than ever in recent years. Only a few decades ago only 10-15% of surveyed people reported engaging in BDSM. Since then that number has increased by nearly 90%. Even though BDSM is gaining popularity many people still feel guilty for having BDSM related fantasies. I'm here to tell you there is abosultely no reason to feel guilty. BDSM is much broader than it seems and when done correctly, is completely safe and healthy. If given the chance, BDSM can be the most sincere display of love and affection between you and your partner. Whether you are somewhat familiar with BDSM or not familiar at all, don't miss out on what could be a life-changing experience because of misconceptions and miseducation. Vanilla to Kinky will help you discover: What aspects of BDSM are best for you How to partake in BDSM the right way How to find your role How to create amazingly intense scenes How to find the dynamic you love the most How toys can enhance your BDSM experience The keys to being a good Dominant The keys to being a good submissive Helpful tips to get you started on your journey BDSM is for anybody. It does not discriminate against any ages, genders, or body type. Yes, even an average joe like you can partake in safe and healthy BDSM. BDSM is a journey that can be truly rewarding every time but will take effort, patience, and an self-examination. If you want to begin your journey then this is where you start. Scroll up and click the Add to Cart to get started today. |
| bdsm how to guide: Dom's Guide to Bdsm Matthew Larocco, 2015-10-07 'Dom's Guide to BDSM was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 3 of this series, we/re going to focus on advanced techniques that will set you apart from the fake/novice doms/masters who are just looking for someone to abuse. After finishing reading this book, you will be fully equipped to be the best Dom you can be. You will have complete dominance over your sub, and also have the option of helping to transform the sub sub into becoming the better version of herself that she really wants to be. Your knowledge as a disciplinarian, a Master, a dominant, an Alpha and a teacher, will always be a commodity and a great value that subs will find very attractive. You will be a true Master that any sub will respect & admire.--Back cover. |
| bdsm how to guide: As Kinky as You Wanna Be Shanna Germain, 2014-11-24 As Kinky as You Wanna Be is not an instruction book. It won't teach you how to tie up your squirming lover or choose the proper lube. Rather, it teaches you how to be a kinky person who has safe, sane, and smart experiences. Like a tourist's guide to BDSM, As Kinky as You Wanna Be offers a road map to your own kinky self. This book helps you discover which kinky countries you want to visit, gives you tips and techniques on the language of BDSM, and helps you navigate the customs and rituals of the kink community. With sections on discovering your pleasures; talking about kink with your partner, your family, or your doctor; staying physically and mentally safe; putting your kinky dreams into practice; and dealing with difficult situations, As Kinky as You Wanna Be is your guide and confidant. The book features informative interviews with BDSM experts such as Jay Wiseman and Lee Harrington, and it is sprinkled with stories from top erotica authors like Janine Ashbless and Rachel Kramer Bussel. Whether your first kinky experience or thousandth, As Kinky as You Wanna Be guides you — safely and smartly. |
| bdsm how to guide: The New Bottoming Book Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy, 2011-06-09 Three decades ago, this book and its companion volume The New Topping Book began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just how-to, but why-to... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Bottoming Book and New Topping Book give even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player! What the experts are saying The only way I can think of to learn more about bottming than Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy teach you in [The New Bottoming Book] is to go out and bottom for yourself. - William A. Henkin, Ph.D., co-author, Consensual Sadomasochism |
| bdsm how to guide: Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1 Matthew Larocco, 2015-08-19 Much of what we’ve “heard” about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it’s also a concept that you will find is not “scary.” And even the “pain” that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is. This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn’t already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they’ve heard about it. What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want. Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub. In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss: - How to think and act like a Dom - What the slave expects from you - What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow - Your motivation and your goals - How to find out a sub’s taboo - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe - How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you - And much more... |
| bdsm how to guide: Bdsm Mastery-Relationships Robert J Rubel Ph D, Robert J. Rubel, 2nd, M. Jen Fairfield, 2014-12-30 This is the second book in the BDSM Mastery series. While the first book oriented readers to play, parties, and scene protocols, this book addresses Dominant/submissive relationships. What, you might ask, are BDSM Relationships? These are adventuresome relationships. Relationships that are not exactly like vanilla relationships. BDSM relationships differ in two specific ways from your typical vanilla relationship: first, they usually involve a power-imbalanced structure (one person is clearly in charge and the other person is clearly following); second, the kind of sex that adventuresome folks practice is, well, not vanilla. I wrote this book to help you better to understand the power dynamics that get involved with what are called power-imbalanced relationships (usually referred to as Dominant/submissive or D/s relationships). |
| bdsm how to guide: Mastering the Art of Dominance Matthew Larocco, 2017-05-22 Are you a frustrated Dom? Have you tried to be the best Dom possible but can’t seem to find any subs? Do your sessions end prematurely? Are you not quite sure what you’re doing wrong or how to start setting up programs for a sub that wants emotional healing? You’ve come to the right place! Continuing our line of BDSM education books, we’ve compiled a list of tips that we call “Troubleshooting Tips”, especially made for Doms who are stuck in a circle of inactivity. Your subs may complain that you’re too aggressive or too nice, or maybe that you just don’t understand. The problem is not necessarily with you or your attitude. Usually it’s because you haven’t been formally trained on how to DIRECT a sub towards a progressive plan of action. It is your job to train a sub, explain the punishments and rewards, and transform her thinking. No Dom has ever started off a complete natural. Everyone needs training and additional tips for turning their intermediate knowledge into professional / expert level understanding. In Mastering The Art of Dominance, you will learn: - How to attract subs (even if you’ve been unsuccessful in the past) - How to avoid mentally disturbed subs before it’s too late - How to turn your friend-with-benefits into a sub - How to identify troubled subs who can be helped and how to help them - How to manage multiple subs and multiple partners with fellow Doms - How to deal with jealousy and rivalries with multiple subs - And much more... By the time you finish this book, you’re going to be ready to be a top of your class Dom! |
| bdsm how to guide: Exploring Bdsm MS Morgan Thorne, 2017-11-23 Exploring BDSM: A Workbook for Couples (or More) Discovering Kink will walk you through eight popular categories of kink, encouraging you to explore each one as you go. Fill out checklists with your partner and get advice on crafting scenes using your compatible kinks. Learn about effective communication in BDSM as you review each scene you've tried. Explore different areas of BDSM: Bondage Impact & Pain Play Sensation Play Role Play Sexuality & Sexual Taboo Protocols & Power Exchange Humiliation Play Taboo & Edge Play Get advice on how to explore your kinky fantasies and craft amazing scenes from Kink Educator, Lifestyle and Professional Dominant Morgan Thorne. She shares personal stories, safety information as well as tips to make your explorations thrilling and fulfilling. |
| bdsm how to guide: Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 2 Matthew Larocco, 2016-06-07 Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom’s goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of Submissive's Guide To BDSM: - What is your Ideal Scene... - How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene... - How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom... - Etiquette on being a sub for the first time... - How to enjoy the pain as a sub... - How to work with multiple Doms... - How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure... - How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you... - And much more... |
| bdsm how to guide: The New Topping Book Dossie Easton, Janet W. Hardy, 2011-11-07 Two decades ago, this book (and its companion volume, The New Bottoming Book) began teaching tens of thousands of people the joyous arts of BDSM topping and bottoming - not just how-to, but why-to... the insider details of emotional support and ethical interaction during kinky play. Since then, the growing popularity of BDSM, and the blossoming of the Internet as a source of information and connection, have created a whole new universe of possibilities for players. Now, the completely updated revised New Topping Book gives even more insights and ideas, updated for a new millennium, about how to be a successful, popular player! Easton and Hardy tackle the Top... and bring that elusive critter down neatly and with a certain flair. This is good stuff, important stuff... an excellent guide to topping, both for the rank novice and for the player who just wants words to put to all the thoughts and feelings that have resisted categorization. - Laura Antoniou, Sandmutopian Guardian |
| bdsm how to guide: Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Elizabeth Cramer, 2015-03-06 A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training. It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge. Dom's Guide to Submissive Training was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony including advanced techniques & tips. Training can be one of the most exciting, challenging and fun parts of the relationship. A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship – trust and consistency. Following the instructions in this guide will allow you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide you both to the best possible life. |
| bdsm how to guide: Shibari Seito Saiki, 2018-01-10 Welcome to the beginners guide to Shibari. In this book you will learn about what it takes to safely and confidently perform the Japanese art of Shibari otherwise known as bondage. The secret here is that not all bondage is sexual in nature. While it is obviously associated with that as well, it is also independently considered an art form and is practiced by very serious artists. The main difference is being in the word chosen to describe it. The word Shibari in Japanese is specific to the act of tying, or binding. Whereas Kinbaku is the more sexual side of it, the word associated the BDSM and sex games side of things. If you are referring to a beautiful artistic display that, while erotic, is limited to an artist's interpretation and not a sex act then you would be speaking of Shibari. Here is a preview of what you'll learn: - What is Shibari? - Materials for the Japanese art of Shibari - Knotting and Tying - The knot tying of hands stirrup - The tying of hands stirrup (another variation) - The wrist knot chain - The knotting under arm rat-tail stopper - Connecting neck with both arms common whipping - Leg bind round lashing - Hip tie square lashing - Ankle's tying - Chest knots - Chest bind figure 8 knot - Chest bind figure 8 knot with hands - Advanced Knotting & Tying - The rope tying of hands, shoulders and legs - Double loops to tie mid arm mark bowline - The tying fisherman's knot - Sturdy knot of body overhand bow - The tying neck & back common cross whipping - The tying cow hitch - Constrictor knot - Humble coin knot double overhand - The tying ashley stopper knot - Difficult tying of waist, legs and head - The knotting rope |
| bdsm how to guide: Submissive's Guide to Bdsm Matthew Larocco, 2016-05-06 Being a sub means this BDSM game is really all about your pleasure. The Dom's goal is to provide you with the pleasure you crave and send you to a higher level of eroticism through very intensive sessions of bondage, discipline, sadism and masochism. During volume 1 we talked about trust; finding a Dom you can trust and one that meets your high standards. In this book, we are going to explain how you as a sub can develop a criteria for your Dom and ensure that each session is going to be enjoyable. Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 2 of Submissive's Guide To BDSM: What is your Ideal Scene--How and what you should tell your Dom, when he creates the scene --- How to create a mutually beneficial relationship with your Dom --- Etiquette on being a sub for the first time --- How to enjoy the pain as a sub --- How to work with multiple Doms --- How to reach a whole zenith of pleasure --- How to make your vanilla spouse enjoy BDSM with you --- And much more. |
| bdsm how to guide: BDSM. A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism Ayzad, 2018 |
| bdsm how to guide: The BDSM New User Instruction Manual Je Earl, 2020-05-25 Combining the basics from nearly a dozen specific BDSM guidebooks as well as new material, this book is the COMPLETE new user's instruction manual to BDSM. Catered to the beginner, The BDSM New User Instruction Manual lays out the facets of BDSM in a way that lets the beginner explore and get a taste of each. This book covers the basics of each letter of B D S M as well as other kink aspects rarely explored but no less important. As well, how to play safe, how to negotiate and how to actually put this knowledge into action is covered in depth. |
| bdsm how to guide: The Ultimate Guide to Bondage Mistress Couple, 2018-11-13 Whether you are looking for an introduction to bondage or seeking new heights of erotic delights, The Ultimate Guide to Bondage is the perfect addition to your dungeon’s bookshelf! The Ultimate Guide to Bondage is a comprehensive reference guide for any Mistress, Master, or lover of BDSM. Mistress Couple’s original and insightful approach to bondage invites curious kinksters to consider and explore a myriad of practical and psychological bondage methods. Going far beyond any BDSM “starter kit” the book shows how bondage truly extends past the rope and chain restraint of your partner. From decorative applications such as wedding rings and corsets, to invisible yet potent mental bondage, to fetish applications such as balloon or nylon encasement, this book provides historical context, powerful insights, tutorials, examples, and activities for every type of bondage enthusiast. |
| bdsm how to guide: Submissive Training Elizabeth Cramer, 2015-03-05 Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace. |
| bdsm how to guide: Submissive's Guide to BDSM Volume 1 Matthew Larocco, 2016 What does it really mean to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or Master, or Top. However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience.That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle.Here are just some of the things you will discover in volume 1 of Submissive's Guide To BDSM:- Why you want to experience punishment...- The science of pain & pleasure...- Type of Doms to beware of...- How to pick the right Dom just for you...- How to protect yourself from wannabe Doms and predators...- The right way to explore taboo fantasies in BDSM...- Type of limits and when & how to use them...- How to communicate with your Dom...- Common mistakes new subs make...- How to train your Master...- How to fire your Dom if it's not working out...- And much more... |
| bdsm how to guide: Conquer Me Kacie Cunningham, 2011-03-28 Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she's relinquished her power to her dominant partner? With warmth, wisdom and a down-to-earth approach, experienced submissive Kacie Cunningham analyzes the realities of the dominant-submissive lifestyle and suggests ways in which both partners can experience the greatest possible growth and pleasure. At the heart of the book is an emotion Kacie has dubbed Conquer Me -- which she defines as the submissive's internal demand for a show of strength. Without a clear understanding of conquer me, both submissive and dominant may find themselves at odds -- either fighting unhappily, or watching the passion ebb from their relationship. This book explains this unique need and how to get it met -- essential knowledge for any submissive or couple who wants to get the most out of their D/s lifestyle. |
| bdsm how to guide: Playing Well With Others Lee Harrington, Mollena Williams, 2012-02-29 Whether you're a trembling novice or a jaded expert, there's always something new to be discovered in the endlessly changing, complex and titillating world of kink. While there are plenty of other books out there that explain how to give a spanking or tie a half-hitch, Playing Well With Others is the first book that explains kink *culture* -- the munches, parties, leather bars, conferences, workshops, fetish nights, exploratoriums and all the other gatherings of kinksters that turn BDSM and leather from a bedroom predilection to a lifestyle and a community. You'll learn to: • Examine your own motivations, needs, wants and desires • Ease your way into established communities • Understand etiquette in different adventurous sex communities • Familiarize yourself with the many types of events available to you • Care for your relationships as you explore new territory • Negotiate for play and aftercare • Go back to the “world at large” without ruffling feathers • ...and, of course, answer the all-important question: What do you wear?! The team of Harrington and Williams offers 30-plus years of experience in diverse kink communities: top, bottom and switch; gay, bi and straight; female, male and trans; white and POC. Both former titleholders and international educators, they are an unbeatable pair of sexual sherpas with an inimitable voice and a great deal of wisdom. Playing Well With Others is an unprecedented and essential guidebook for anyone who wants to explore or understand the community aspect of the kink lifestyle. |
| bdsm how to guide: The Ultimate Guide to Kink Tristan Taormino, 2012-03-01 The Ultimate Guide to Kink is the first major guide to BDSM in a generation—a bold and sexy collection of essays that run the gamut from expert how-to tutorials to provocative essays that delve into complex questions about desire, power, and pleasure. The book brings together diverse voices from the kink community in an unprecedented way: each chapter is written by a different sexuality/BDSM educator. Divided into two sections, the first section features thorough, thoughtful pieces—on everything from flogging to bondage—packed with techniques and beautifully illustrated with original images from artist Katie Diamond. The second section is dedicated to role-playing fantasies and personal manifestos. From age play to masochism, these chapters cover some of the edgiest, most taboo and controversial elements of kink in depth. The Ultimate Guide to Kink features the expertise of renowned educators writing passionately on their favorite subjects, including Patrick Califia, Midori, Laura Antoniou, Barbara Carrellas, Lee Harrington, Jack Rinella, Lolita Wolf, Madison Young, Hardy Haberman, Felice Shays, Ignacio Rivera, Sarah Sloane, Mollena Williams, FifthAngel, and Edge. It will educate, inspire, and challenge both newcomers to the world of kink and experienced BDSM players. |
| bdsm how to guide: Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 2 Matthew Larocco, 2015-09-03 Dom's Guide to BDSM was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 2 of this series, we’re going to focus on how to better communicate with a sub, and how to go back and forth with role playing. We’re going to teach you how to express yourself, how to read your sub and look for cues, and how to go about getting a real life BDSM relationship started. We’re also going to discuss how to train your sub accordingly and with a purpose. This is important and is an often-neglected part of the BDSM community. The highly sensationalized, “purely sexual” relationships you read about or see depicted in TV or movies is not the only type of relationship forged. Some relationships really are all about personal missions, self-improvement and getting in touch with suppressed inner feelings. We will cover this as well as the most important part of BDSM dominance—having a plan. You will learn how to be an excellent Dom and it all starts with a few simple steps. Note: If you have not read Volume 1 in this series (Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1: 49 Must-Know Tips On How To Be The Perfect Dom/Master Your submissive Will Truly Respect & Admire), it is highly recommended that you do so before taking on this book. |
| bdsm how to guide: SM 101 Jay Wiseman, 2011-11-22 100,000 COPIES IN PRINT! The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming out of the closet - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and similar consensual practices. With chapters on everything from partner-seeking to afterplay, including step-by-step guides to bondage, spanking, flagellation, roleplay, erotic torment and much more, Jay Wiseman's SM 101 has taught the fundamentals of safe, exciting SM to tens of thousands of people of all genders and orientations! If you want to read SM nonfiction that has a pulse and passion, that inspires as much as it instructs, SM 101 is the book for you. - Joseph Bean, Drummer |
| bdsm how to guide: Dom's Guide to BDSM Volume 1 Matthew Larocco, 2015 Much of what we've heard about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it's also a concept that you will find is not scary. And even the pain that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is.This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn't already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they've heard about it.What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want.Still interested? Good. Now that we know you're a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub.In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss:- How to think and act like a Dom- What the slave expects from you- What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow- Your motivation and your goals- How to find out a sub's taboo- How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe- How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you- And much more... |
| bdsm how to guide: Bdsm Positions Stefan Ziglar, 2016-01-02 Contrary to popular belief not all the activities that fall under the classification of BDSM involve both parties wearing lots of leather while one person flogs the other. In fact, BDSM is actually more concerned with pleasure than pain and ensuring both partners are comfortable at all times is key part of the experience. If you have ever been the least bit aroused by the thought of being restrained or restraining a sexual partner or light biting or spanking than BDSM Positions: The Beginner's Guide to BDSM might be just the thing you need to explore the idea of BSDM exploration more clearly. BDSM Positions: The Beginner's Guide to BDSM starts out by explaining the basic ideas behind BDSM experiences and the physiology behind the idea that pleasure can be derived from pain before discussing the mindset behind BDSM activities and the tools you will need to explore fully. Finally, there is a discussion of a wide variety of bondage positions appropriate for everyone from novices to BDSM masters and the ways to experience them as safely as possible. Recent studies have shown that as much as 70 percent of the general population derives some pleasure from some form of BDSM practices be they restricted movement, dominance, submission or some form of painful stimulation. Don't you owe it to you and your partner to explore a diverse range of sexual possibilities? You never know what you may in fact be missing. |
| bdsm how to guide: Submissive's Guide to Bdsm Matthew Larocco, 2016-08-03 What does it really man to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or master, or Top. However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle.--Back cover. |
| bdsm how to guide: How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive Kate Kinsey, 2014-09-06 Beyond any shades of grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey (Red, and The Totally Uncensored Kinky Adventures of Chloe St. Claire, Sex Slave) brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.Topics covered include: the differences between dominants and masters, submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms; the different dominant styles; the truth about training to be a submissive; how to find like-minded folks in your area; how to negotiate scenes and relationships; what to expect at your first dungeon party; why some people actually enjoy pain; and the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners.Kinsey has written a no-nonsense guide that thoroughly explains the various kinks and fetishes that come under the umbrella of BDSM. Most importantly, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself along the way with knowledge, friends and self-awareness.This is not fiction, but reality. Kate Kinsey has the experience to tell it like it is, not the way some vanilla writer imagines it to be. |
| bdsm how to guide: 50 Shades of Bondage and Submission Renée Dubois, 2013-02-05 Bored with vanilla sex? Now that a certain bestseller has set imaginations afire, everyone's eager to explore the world of BDSM (bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism). Let the fun and games begin, with this sizzling-hot guide to power play Learn the ropes (literally) of bondage, try titillating torture for a spanking good time, and enjoy daring ideas with blindfolds, whips, and wartenberg wheels. Whether your urge is to be mistress or pupil, strapped to the bed or holding the cane, you'll find a way to get your kink on |
| bdsm how to guide: Bdsm Richard Welps, 2018-06-04 Have you ever thought about indulging in BDSM, but don't know where to start? Have you ever wanted to pleasure your partner while assuming dominance over them, but didn't know where to begin? Are you someone who's been curious about exploring kink, but don't know where to begin?Well, you're in luck, for this book will tell you everything that you need to know to have a basic understanding of BDSM.With this book, you'll be able to understand BDSM for what it is, not just as something that's been discussed in 50 shades of grey, but realistic, actual understanding of this subject. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding BDSM and kink culture, and sometimes, it's hard to find the truth, and what you should and shouldn't be doing. But, you're in luck, for this book will tell you everything you need to know about BDSM, and how to pleasure your partner. Buy It Now |
| bdsm how to guide: The Big Workbook for Submissives Rebecca E. Blanton, 2017-07-10 The Big Workbook for Submissives provides a large number of essays, journaling exercises, research assignments, and play assignments to help explore your submissive side. This book is great both for the person new to submission and for the person who has been practicing for some time and wants to deepen their submission. It is written for all genders and sexual orientations and accommodates both monogamous couple and poly relationships. The workbook is based on the class Deepening Your Submission taught by the author around the United States. This book takes you on a journey exploring your idealized version of submission to your practice and helps identify what you desire and need in your submission. This workbook may be used alone or with a partner. |
| bdsm how to guide: Come Hither Gloria G. Brame, 2001 How do you tell your partner that you'd like to be spanked? Where can youind a good dominatrix? If your husband likes to wear your underwear, doeshat mean he's gay? What really goes on at S&M clubs? This is a frank,riendly guide on how to turn your secret fantasies into satisfyingxpressions of love and desire. It is full of practical advice, quizzes youan complete alone or with friends, and a glossary of kinky slang. |
| bdsm how to guide: The Little Guide to Getting Tied Up Evie Vane, 2017-08-20 The pioneering book on getting tied up for fun, from bedroom play to advanced suspensions. You'll learn all about finding the right partner for rope bondage (aka shibari or kinbaku), types of rope bondage scenes, avoiding injuries, pain processing, and the 7 Helpful Skills of Rope Bottoming, including Mindfulness, Being Prepared, and Communicating With Your Rope Top. You'll also learn how to evaluate a suspension hardpoint for safety and much more! Sprinkled throughout are photos plus true stories of rope bondage scenes that went wrong and scenes that went right. You'll also find a list of valuable rope bottoming resources. |
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