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| bdsm training a sub: Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Elizabeth Cramer, 2015-03-06 A Dom/sub relationship doesn’t just happen. It is a finely crafted and designed system of expectations and joys. In order for you and your submissive lady to “fit” one another and create a lasting, happy union there must be a period of training. It does not matter if your sub has thirty years of experience in submission or just read 50 Shades of Grey and decided to try it herself. She will need to be trained for the best relationship to emerge. Dom's Guide to Submissive Training was specifically written for doms/masters. It is designed to provide you with a step-by-step blueprint on how to train your new sub. It goes from preparation all the way down to the closing ceremony including advanced techniques & tips. Training can be one of the most exciting, challenging and fun parts of the relationship. A well-trained sub will not only serve you in the capacity you deserve, but will have built up the two most important elements in any BDSM relationship – trust and consistency. Following the instructions in this guide will allow you to show yourself as a worthy master, who is in control, experienced and able to guide you both to the best possible life. |
| bdsm training a sub: Submissive Training Elizabeth Cramer, 2015-03-05 Nothing will prepare you for a life of submission in the same way as your formal training. Submissive training isn’t just a “good idea” when it comes to creating a BDSM relationship. It is essential. Submissive Training: 23 Things You Must Know About How To Be A Submissive is designed to help you know what to expect when you go through training with a new Dom. Every couple is unique and every Dom may have different ways of teaching you the systems of service he prefers. However, these are the basics all trained subs and slaves learn and employ in daily life. Rushing into a relationship or service contract with a Dom without training puts the future of your time together at risk. All of the arguments, resistance, misunderstandings and hurt feelings that go with a new submissive’s experiences can be eradicated by a period designated for learning, listening, trial and error. Even if you have been with a previous Dom you will need to go through an abbreviated training time to ensure your patterns and understandings match one another. Training is a way to “get in the same rhythm” and find the perfect groove. If you are a Dom, this guide is the perfect gift to give to your new sub. If you are a sub, this guide will teach you how to go through your submissive training. As you go through these things on the journey to become the woman you were made to be, you will be tested but you will also be proud, joyful and, perhaps for the first time in your life, you will be at peace. |
| bdsm training a sub: A Dom's Guide to Training a Sub Mistress Dede, 2016-11-04 The power, the satisfaction, and the intense rush of domination that goes through your body when your submissive bows to your will cannot be compared to any other thing in this world. This ebook is every Dom’s guide to training a submissive. It contains various guidelines and strategies on how a Dom can get the best of the relationship. As you read through, keep in mind that dominance and submission are simply one part of BDSM. It advances into a wider spectrum which includes sadism, bondage, discipline, and masochism as well. However, the focus of this book is submissive training. |
| bdsm training a sub: Brie Learns the Art of Submission Red Phoenix, 2014-03-24 #1 Best Seller in Erotica - Brie Learns the Art of Submission This special Second Edition includes a note from the author and a BONUS chapter at the end, Khan: Lasting Impressions (a chapter written from the Headmaster's point of view). Join Brianna Bennett as she is introduced to the erotic world of submission... Brie's life changes the day Sir comes to her tiny tobacco shop. His invitation to the Submissive Training Center is about to rock this young woman's world. The renowned school is famous for its elite submissive instruction. She has no idea what will be asked of her or the boundaries that will be pushed. One thing is certain: Brie is about to learn more about herself in six weeks than she has over the previous twenty-two years. From formal classes, hands-on practicums and weekly auctions, Brie will confront her deepest fears and desires. In the process, she will also forge lifelong friendships with fellow submissives and fall for several of the Center's skilled Doms. As graduation day approaches things begin to unravel, forcing Brie to make an unexpected choice of Master. Which Dom will ultimately earn her devotion and capture Brie's courageous heart? * Adult Material (18+) Warning: This book contains sexually explicit content. |
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| bdsm training a sub: The Ultimate Handbook for the Dom and Sub Richard Welps, 2018-08-15 Do you want to take your BDSM play experiences to the next level? Have you ever thought of trying new things, but feared what might happen if you do? Often taking scenes to the next level can be hard, and being able to establish that form of discipline is hard. Plus, there are many alternative kinks that are out there which may confuse you. However, this book will give you everything that you need to know on how to be a BDSM expert.In this book, you'll learn the following:In this book, you'll learn of the following: Expert tips for domination and submission Slave training and how to go about it New and innovative BDSM activities How to get discipline from your sub Femdom, and how to take it to extreme levels How to engage in different types of edge play, including blood play, needle play, piercing play, and choking By the end of this, you'll know many core elements of BDSM, and you'll have a great time exploring this type of kink. |
| bdsm training a sub: Submissive Training Hayden Reese, 2020-06-14 BDSM - do these four letters bring shivers of pleasure - or pain down your back? There are many misconceptions about what BDSM is, but if approached with the idea that it is a conscious lifestyle choice, it might be more properly understood. Or do you find yourself wondering what would the perfect submissive do, what would they say, how would they act, what would they wear, and so on? Being a submissive involves a lot more than submitting to your Dom's will, dressing up and speaking down. You have to pay attention to your whole being - how you think, react, feel, position yourself, speak and look. In this book, we will explore the oft-taboo subject of BDSM and you will learn: Tips on how to present yourself as a perfect sub, things you have to prepare and look out for 17 hottest sub roleplay roles that you can use to titillate your Dom 239 naughtiest BDSM dirty talk examples to arouse each other to greater sexual heights If applied all these correctly, it can actually elevate your love life, so here's to exploring new and exciting world! |
| bdsm training a sub: Guide to BDSM Donna Prince, 2020-04-16 You or your partner are fascinated by BDSM, but don't know how and where to start? Everything you need to know, you will find it in this book. Most of what people think about BDSM, is wrong. In reality BDSM is not degrading women or men and you will also understand that it's not as obscure as you think. And also the concept of pain we are talking about is not what people think. You will also understand that having the role of the Dom is not just about having pleasure, on the contrary, the Dom has the role of giving pleasure and discipline to the submissive. He must have pleasure in giving pleasure and not simply receiving what he wants. This book is intended for both Dominant and Submissive training. It's also perfect for those who haven't experience in this world. This is a taste of what you will find in this book: What is BDSM and Why? Introducing BDSM to your Partner What is Domination and Submission 8 Tips on how to get Started in BDSM 7 Mistakes New Submissives Make 10 must-have BDSM Toys for Beginners Bondage play Punishments Examples Types of Consents: SSC vs RACK Dominance Techniques Role-Play types SAFE WORDS: how to Choose them and why After reading this book you will have made your sex life richer and your partner will beg you for more. So... Scroll up, click the buy now button and get your copy of Guide to BDSM ! Check also the others Sex Life Tips books: 1 - Art of Seduction: Boost your Sexual Intelligence Learning How to Flirt with Techniques of Verbal Communication, Signal and Understand a Sex Desire for Woman and Man 2 - DIRTY TALK LANGUAGE: How to Learn with Examples of Phrases of Lust to Have a Great Sex with Your Man or Woman, Make It Wilder and Drive Your Partner Crazy 3 - Sex Games for Couples: Ways to Spice up your Relationship with Hot Quiz, Games and Sexy Conversation 4 - Guide to BDSM: to Have a Healthy and Mindful Dom / Sub Relationship, with Techniques of Dominance and How to be a Good Submissive for your Master |
| bdsm training a sub: Dom's Guide to Submissive Elizabeth Cramer, 2013-12 You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic décor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear. Fortunately, you don't have to pay a hundred dollars for a specialty flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks in order to be a great Dom and provide your sub with hours of bondage, spanking and fun. Most of the things you need to give your submissive the spanking of a lifetime, a punishment to fit the crime, or just an incredible bondage experience can be found right in your own home. Your sub will not only enjoy the variety of experiences in her sessions but also appreciate your creativity. Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 3 gives you 31 common objects you already own or can purchase for minimal cost and keep right out in the open that will enhance your BDSM relationship and provide you and your sub hours of pleasure. Aside from the cost savings, there is another benefit to using everyday objects in your BDSM training and session fun – discretion. Not every person can be seen walking down the street or through an airport with a leather whip in his hand or a wooden paddle in his bag. Many Doms must conceal their activities from employers, social circles, or vanilla spouses. Common objects make it easier to engage in important rituals without detection. |
| bdsm training a sub: Submissive Training Joshua Matthew, 2017-11-17 SUBMISSIVE TRAINING Thinking of becoming a slave to Christian Grey? Or perhaps you simply wish to learn more about the world of BDSM, and discover what it takes to really become a full-fledged submissive? Either way, this would be the book that will teach you how to become a better, naughtier submissive through the following topics: Understanding the psychology behind D/s relationships, how you can get into one and tips to ensure your safety and well-being for the long-haul. A brief introduction into the realm of BDSM, i.e., Bondage, Discipline and Sado-masochism Basic knowledge on submissive training in the perspective of a submissive Tips to please your Dominant partner through conditioning, rules and protocols and even pain tolerance techniques 30 sexual scenarios for you and your dominant partner to explore and apply for the best Dominant/submissive - D/s experience If you really want to know what submissives do/say/feel behind closed doors then this is the book for you. |
| bdsm training a sub: Bdsm Richard Welps, 2018-06-04 Have you ever thought about indulging in BDSM, but don't know where to start? Have you ever wanted to pleasure your partner while assuming dominance over them, but didn't know where to begin? Are you someone who's been curious about exploring kink, but don't know where to begin?Well, you're in luck, for this book will tell you everything that you need to know to have a basic understanding of BDSM.With this book, you'll be able to understand BDSM for what it is, not just as something that's been discussed in 50 shades of grey, but realistic, actual understanding of this subject. There are a lot of misconceptions surrounding BDSM and kink culture, and sometimes, it's hard to find the truth, and what you should and shouldn't be doing. But, you're in luck, for this book will tell you everything you need to know about BDSM, and how to pleasure your partner. Buy It Now |
| bdsm training a sub: The Noah Diary Jordan Douglas, 2021-03-15 The well-known personal diary of Texas Cowgirl Jordan Douglas in college, at age 19. A Daddy's Girl and Texas Tomboy, she grew up in rural Texas roping and riding on horses with her Father, and found out love could be harder for a Tomboy who weren't as pretty as the cheerleaders. She had kept secret diaries through her teens of her ideas of love, sexual secrets, and as older guy friends shared benefits, they rejected her afterwards. She wrote about her strict religious upbringing and guilt from self-intimacy, and private sexual fantasies about the perfect Cowboy, her father. Her Daddy Issues, and not recognizing her darker sexual needs exploded to the surface her 2nd year in College, and was recorded by her, in 'The Noah Diary. With her secret Daddy Issues, her thick, Texas curves in her favorite Cowgirl boots and short-shorts, found herself in the arms of a stranger and older Cowboy named 'Noah' who was 27 years old, and whose style of intimacy was emotionally and physically brutal and poisoning to her mind. Jordan began a sexually-dominated summer with her hands tied behind her back, getting forced to explore her darker sexual desires of real sexual humiliation, stimulating sexual-emotional abuse, and disturbing sexual mind-play drawing out her need for more than Daddy's approval. Noah used these on her all summer as he forced her sexual needs past limits she couldn't handle, punishing her with her own desires to screaming excess, drugging her daily, and bringing her into complete Submission to his stimulating Daddy role over her. She had found true love in this journey of self-discovery and understanding, and began to feel like a beautiful cheerleader with her new Daddy, and as the summer came to an end, she feared leaving Noah to go back to college, feared facing her religious parents, her lies to them about working all summer, the truth that she had flunked her last semester to be with Noah, and they paid the bill. She had to return home to face her mistakes, when all she wanted, was happily ever after in Texas. |
| bdsm training a sub: Dom's Guide to Bdsm Matthew Larocco, 2015-10-07 'Dom's Guide to BDSM was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 3 of this series, we/re going to focus on advanced techniques that will set you apart from the fake/novice doms/masters who are just looking for someone to abuse. After finishing reading this book, you will be fully equipped to be the best Dom you can be. You will have complete dominance over your sub, and also have the option of helping to transform the sub sub into becoming the better version of herself that she really wants to be. Your knowledge as a disciplinarian, a Master, a dominant, an Alpha and a teacher, will always be a commodity and a great value that subs will find very attractive. You will be a true Master that any sub will respect & admire.--Back cover. |
| bdsm training a sub: Named and Shamed C. P. Mandara, 2014-09-27 If Jenny thought life was hard under the expert tutelage of Mark, being faced with a stable full of sex-starved pony girls poses several more challenges. For instance, how do you bring eleven young women to orgasm in a timely fashion? But to her surprise, tackling the problem with experimentation and enthusiasm, she finds herself enjoying the experience. When training begins it is anything but enjoyable, however. Harnessed in pony girl tack, her body is encircled with leather, rubber and steel. It nips, chafes and rubs cruelly, especially when she's faced with a morning of naughty games in the exercise yard. In Book Four of Pony Tales Jenny earns herself several punishments, and is subjected to some very thorough sex indoctrination she has to submit to the whims of her groom, trainers and even the stable-hands. Will rescue arrive or will she have to beg to be released, with nothing more than her body as currency? |
| bdsm training a sub: Training Your Girlfriend to Submit and Obey Ryan Hale, 2016-10-17 Making a girlfriend obey has several benefits. Training her can be a long road when your desired outcome is the perfect girl who does as she's told, who worships you with all of her love, and who would never cheat on you or think of doing anything that displeases you. Please don't think this book is a book for misogynistic male archetypes who seek only to control their universe and who have mommy issues. This book is for the 'real' man who knows his place, his girlfriend's place, and who wants the world to be playground. A true man showers his girlfriend with love when she obeys and submits to him and punishes her when she disobeys and gets out of line. There has to be law and order in every relationship. There has to be someone who is in control, who has the upper-hand, and, let me suggest, if it's not you (the man in the relationship), then it is probably her. You must learn to dominate and this means teaching her to submit. If you don't, you'll never have a truly satisfying relationship that is tighter than glue. This book is going to teach you techniques for making her obey and submit to you. It is going to provide you with a lot of sound practical advice and help you along this wonderful journey of training her to obey and submit. I want you to get excited, because a girl who obeys and does as she's told is a happy girl, one who loves you, one who truly cares about you and your happiness. This is what makes her happiest. If you have gone through a lot of relationships, had little luck with girls, then this book will be eye-opening and refreshing for you because you'll finally learn what you've been doing wrong and how to correct it. You will be correcting yourself by learning how to correct her. A girl who obeys you and who is submissive is the perfect girlfriend, isn't she (?), since a girl who doesn't is bitchy and controlling and constantly a problem for you. I welcome you. Grab Your Copy Now! |
| bdsm training a sub: How to Be a Healthy and Happy Submissive Kate Kinsey, 2014-09-06 Beyond any shades of grey, there's an entire kinky world of BDSM, full of real life dominants and submissives enjoying an intimacy and satisfaction in their relationships that vanilla folk only dream of. Whether you want to explore your own submissive fantasies, or you're just curious about what BDSM is really like, this book will answer all your questions, plus some you didn't know you had. Erotic author Kate Kinsey (Red, and The Totally Uncensored Kinky Adventures of Chloe St. Claire, Sex Slave) brings over a decade of experience as a submissive and kinky educator to this practical step-by-step guide to being a healthy and happy submissive.Topics covered include: the differences between dominants and masters, submissives and slaves, and tops and bottoms; the different dominant styles; the truth about training to be a submissive; how to find like-minded folks in your area; how to negotiate scenes and relationships; what to expect at your first dungeon party; why some people actually enjoy pain; and the warning signs to look out for when talking to potential partners.Kinsey has written a no-nonsense guide that thoroughly explains the various kinks and fetishes that come under the umbrella of BDSM. Most importantly, she emphasizes the importance of protecting yourself along the way with knowledge, friends and self-awareness.This is not fiction, but reality. Kate Kinsey has the experience to tell it like it is, not the way some vanilla writer imagines it to be. |
| bdsm training a sub: Submissive Punishment: A Journal for Every Mistress to Keep Track of Your Sub/Slave Punishments / Perfect for Bdsm Relationships and Slave Tr Kinky Books, 2019-03-24 Even - or especially - as a Mistress you need to keep track of the punishment of your slave or submissive as well as the goals and lessons of your training. This journal will help you! It includes everything you need to help you being the best Mistress to your sub/slave you can be, so your sub/slave will respect and admire you: One page for the safe word you agreed on A list of goals for the training which your submissive has to fill on A list of lessons for the training for you to fill in Rules you both agreed on Reasons for punishments Punishments you both agreed on 100 Pages for the punishments you conducted The cover is soft and glossy with a leather print (no real leather!). With 8 X 10 inches it is a good size to work in together with your slave. Enjoy your punishments and get your journal now! Product details: All in all over 100 pages to keep track of your punishments and the progress of your sub/slave Shiny and sturdy cover with a leather print (no real leather!) Large format: 8 x 10 inches |
| bdsm training a sub: Innocence Defied Lainey Reese, 2014-07-01 He denies himself nothing...except the woman who means everything. New York, Book 3 When business brings him to New York City indefinitely, Gage Hollister is sure that somewhere in this massive city, there must be a woman whose need to be dominated matches his thirst to dominate. But as his search through the local BDSM clubs drags on, he begins to despair such a woman exists. When he's asked to chaperone his best friend's younger sister, who's on her first solo trip as an adult, he welcomes the distraction. Zoe Marshall has been in love with Gage forever, and has saved herself for him alone. Now, after careful planning and a bit of luck, she finally has the chance to show him she's all grown up and ready to be his. Gage believes himself too old and jaded for an innocent like Zoe, but she is relentless in her innocent seduction, and soon his resistance crumbles. But as their love blooms, reality tackles their dreams. And in the aftermath, the choices they face will strain the bonds of friendship and family. Perhaps beyond repair. Warning: This book contains graphic language, BDSM elements, M/F/M menage, a Southern Dom who's a gentleman; and the woman who brings out his inner scoundrel. |
| bdsm training a sub: Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 2 Matthew Larocco, 2015-09-03 Dom's Guide to BDSM was specifically written for Doms/Masters. In Volume 2 of this series, we’re going to focus on how to better communicate with a sub, and how to go back and forth with role playing. We’re going to teach you how to express yourself, how to read your sub and look for cues, and how to go about getting a real life BDSM relationship started. We’re also going to discuss how to train your sub accordingly and with a purpose. This is important and is an often-neglected part of the BDSM community. The highly sensationalized, “purely sexual” relationships you read about or see depicted in TV or movies is not the only type of relationship forged. Some relationships really are all about personal missions, self-improvement and getting in touch with suppressed inner feelings. We will cover this as well as the most important part of BDSM dominance—having a plan. You will learn how to be an excellent Dom and it all starts with a few simple steps. Note: If you have not read Volume 1 in this series (Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1: 49 Must-Know Tips On How To Be The Perfect Dom/Master Your submissive Will Truly Respect & Admire), it is highly recommended that you do so before taking on this book. |
| bdsm training a sub: Dom's Guide To BDSM Vol. 1 Matthew Larocco, 2015-08-19 Much of what we’ve “heard” about BDSM and the lifestyle is wrong. Our opinions on this lifestyle and art form are oftentimes shaped by other people who have heard something about it and perhaps embellished it to the point of perpetuating myths. The truth is that BDSM is not degrading towards women, and it’s also a concept that you will find is not “scary.” And even the “pain” that is spoken of is not the type of pain people think it is. This book is written for Doms/Masters in training. It is written for you, the average guy or gal, who doesn’t already have a closet full of leather and whips, and who really has little idea about what BDSM is besides what they’ve heard about it. What you are going to find out, is that the Dom/Master actually has the more complicated role. The master has the task of giving pleasure and discipline to the slave or sub. A great deal of what you do as a Dom will be for the benefit of a sub. You must derive pleasure from giving, have a great desire to please a partner, and not simply take what you want. Still interested? Good. Now that we know you’re a REAL master in training, one that will respect the rules, respect the slave you have power over, and follow protocol, you can begin your Dom training. Only then can you truly earn the utmost respect and admiration from your sub. In Volume 1 of this series we are going to discuss: - How to think and act like a Dom - What the slave expects from you - What not to do and what instincts you do NOT want to follow - Your motivation and your goals - How to find out a sub’s taboo - How to negotiate, find agreement and ensure that game play is always safe - How to make a slave yearn for you and desire to be controlled by you - And much more... |
| bdsm training a sub: Ivan’s Captive Submissive Ann Mayburn, 2016-08-18 When Gia Lopez signs up for the Submissive's Wish Charity Auction she has no idea that she's about to be bought by a Russian Dom who will do anything to make her fantasies come true. Including staging an elaborate kidnapping that Gia believes is real. Ivan is instantly drawn to Gia and he wants to be the best Master she's ever had. As he spends time with Gia he begins to have intense feelings for the strong, independent, and sexy American woman. He's only won a week of her service but wishes to keep her forever. Unaware of Ivan’s true feelings, Gia fights her growing emotional attachment to him. All she wants is to settle down with a nice Dom in the United States, continue her career, and live a normal life. However, Ivan sets a plan into motion that will push Gia to all of her limits and take her on a global journey of self-discovery, extreme pleasure, and love. Warning: Contains Erotic Spanking, Subspace, f/f situations, a devastatingly sexy Dom who knows what he wants, and a submissive who just might be ready to give him what he needs. |
| bdsm training a sub: STOLEN J. Marie, 2017-02-08 HER This was never supposed to happen to me. I was smart. I was strong. I was a first degree black belt for fuck's sake, but none of that mattered. I was stolen from my life and thrown into the dark depths of human trafficking. But the worst is him. He wants me broken. But most of all, he just wants me and that's what has me terrified.I won't let him break me. Because in the end, what doesn't kill me will only make me stronger. HIM I'm not a very nice guy. I'm actually a terrible person, but I'm not going to pretend to care. I have a billion dollar empire to run that manifests carnage, blood, and money and I crave it all. Nothing ever got in my way, nothing stopped me. If I wanted something, I made it happen, that is until this damn girl crawled into my life. Strong, defiant, and a mixed martial artist, she was everything I never expected to want in a woman. Breaking her down became an obsession. I wanted more and I'll be damned if I didn't fucking get it. |
| bdsm training a sub: The Submissive Tara Sue Me, 2013-06-04 The first novel in the seductive and scandalous New York Times bestselling series that has enthralled millions. Abby King has a secret fantasy... New York knows Nathaniel West as the brilliant and handsome CEO of West Industries, but Abby knows he’s more: a sexy and skilled dominant who is looking for a new submissive. Yearning to experience a world of pleasure beyond her simple life as a librarian, Abby offers herself to Nathaniel to fulfill her most hidden desires. After only one weekend with the Master, Abby knows she needs more, and fully submits to Nathaniel’s terms. But despite the pleasure he takes in Abby’s willing spirit, the Nathaniel hidden behind the rules remains cold and distant. As Abby falls deeper into his tantalizing world of power and passion, she fears that Nathaniel’s heart may be beyond her reach—and that her own might be beyond saving... |
| bdsm training a sub: Mastering the Art of Dominance Matthew Larocco, 2017-05-22 Are you a frustrated Dom? Have you tried to be the best Dom possible but can’t seem to find any subs? Do your sessions end prematurely? Are you not quite sure what you’re doing wrong or how to start setting up programs for a sub that wants emotional healing? You’ve come to the right place! Continuing our line of BDSM education books, we’ve compiled a list of tips that we call “Troubleshooting Tips”, especially made for Doms who are stuck in a circle of inactivity. Your subs may complain that you’re too aggressive or too nice, or maybe that you just don’t understand. The problem is not necessarily with you or your attitude. Usually it’s because you haven’t been formally trained on how to DIRECT a sub towards a progressive plan of action. It is your job to train a sub, explain the punishments and rewards, and transform her thinking. No Dom has ever started off a complete natural. Everyone needs training and additional tips for turning their intermediate knowledge into professional / expert level understanding. In Mastering The Art of Dominance, you will learn: - How to attract subs (even if you’ve been unsuccessful in the past) - How to avoid mentally disturbed subs before it’s too late - How to turn your friend-with-benefits into a sub - How to identify troubled subs who can be helped and how to help them - How to manage multiple subs and multiple partners with fellow Doms - How to deal with jealousy and rivalries with multiple subs - And much more... By the time you finish this book, you’re going to be ready to be a top of your class Dom! |
| bdsm training a sub: Conquer Me Kacie Cunningham, 2011-03-28 Submissive women have needs just like anybody else. But how can a woman get her needs met when she's relinquished her power to her dominant partner? With warmth, wisdom and a down-to-earth approach, experienced submissive Kacie Cunningham analyzes the realities of the dominant-submissive lifestyle and suggests ways in which both partners can experience the greatest possible growth and pleasure. At the heart of the book is an emotion Kacie has dubbed Conquer Me -- which she defines as the submissive's internal demand for a show of strength. Without a clear understanding of conquer me, both submissive and dominant may find themselves at odds -- either fighting unhappily, or watching the passion ebb from their relationship. This book explains this unique need and how to get it met -- essential knowledge for any submissive or couple who wants to get the most out of their D/s lifestyle. |
| bdsm training a sub: The Big Workbook for Submissives Rebecca E. Blanton, 2017-07-10 The Big Workbook for Submissives provides a large number of essays, journaling exercises, research assignments, and play assignments to help explore your submissive side. This book is great both for the person new to submission and for the person who has been practicing for some time and wants to deepen their submission. It is written for all genders and sexual orientations and accommodates both monogamous couple and poly relationships. The workbook is based on the class Deepening Your Submission taught by the author around the United States. This book takes you on a journey exploring your idealized version of submission to your practice and helps identify what you desire and need in your submission. This workbook may be used alone or with a partner. |
| bdsm training a sub: If Only Cherise Sinclair, 2013-11-03 If Only: Masters of the Shadowlands 8 |
| bdsm training a sub: Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Vol. 3 Elizabeth Cramer, 2015-03-08 You may think that every Master has a huge house filled with either gothic décor or fluffy white couches, and a ridiculously full selection of paddles, straps, whips, crops, restraints, sex toys, and bondage gear. Fortunately, you don’t have to pay a hundred dollars for a specialty flogger or purchase a wedge from Extreme Restraints for three hundred bucks in order to be a great Dom and provide your sub with hours of bondage, spanking and fun. Most of the things you need to give your submissive the spanking of a lifetime, a punishment to fit the crime, or just an incredible bondage experience can be found right in your own home. Your sub will not only enjoy the variety of experiences in her sessions but also appreciate your creativity. Dom's Guide to Submissive Training Vol. 3 gives you 31 common objects you already own or can purchase for minimal cost and keep right out in the open that will enhance your BDSM relationship and provide you and your sub hours of pleasure. Aside from the cost savings, there is another benefit to using everyday objects in your BDSM training and session fun – discretion. Not every person can be seen walking down the street or through an airport with a leather whip in his hand or a wooden paddle in his bag. Many Doms must conceal their activities from employers, social circles, or vanilla spouses. Common objects make it easier to engage in important rituals without detection. |
| bdsm training a sub: The Riding School C. P. Mandara, 2013 Meet Jenny. She's rich, spoiled, rude and obnoxious. She's also just been signed up for the BDSM ride of her life--without her consent. An intensive training course at the Albrecht Stables is not what it appears to be and training to become a human pony was not on Jenny's to-do list. The trouble is, how do you escape when you're tied up, gagged and constantly sexually aroused? |
| bdsm training a sub: Care and Nurture for the Submissive Elizabeth Cramer, 2013-11 Submission can be described by a lot of words but “easy” isn't one of them. Discovering and honoring your desire to submit takes courage, strength and passion. Learning to follow the lead and rhythm set by another, and stretching your limits to accommodate training and service can challenge and exhaust you. The discipline to hold your tongue, retrieve your paddle, or wait around endlessly while knot after knot is being tied as part of a bondage ritual drains your energy. Submission stretches, taxes, pushes, and exposes your body and soul to the whim and desire of another. Submissive women need support, care and nurture to continue on this journey in a healthy fashion. Care and Nurture for the Submissive offers tips, understandings, and pathways to tend the fragile and beautiful souls of submissive women. Self-care is not selfish; it is essential. Only when you are taking care of yourself as a healthy, whole being can you give that self to another with a full heart and free joy. |
| bdsm training a sub: Real Service Joshua Tenpenny, Raven Kaldera, 2011-08-01 In any consenting and negotiated personal service relationship, there are hundreds of ways in which the servant can make the master's life easier, and the master can manage the servant most effectively. Why is it that we usually only hear about a few of these ways? From housework to driving to child care to personal care, nearly anyone who is in service (or who would like to be) has dozens of skills they already know that they can offer as a service, and there are countless more practical everyday skills they can learn. Real Service is a handbook for service-oriented submissives and the people they serve, providing techniques to help a service relationship function smoothly, and suggestions for service that can be offered. |
| bdsm training a sub: Submissive's Guide To BDSM Vol. 3 Matthew Larocco, 2016-08-01 One thing we can all agree on in our “safe, sane and consensual” lifestyle is that punishment must feel good. Pain must ultimately be pleasurable. And any sort of masochism or sadism must work in the context of pleasing the sub. In BDSM culture, it seems relatively easy to get the hang of the attitude, the behavior and the words. But in terms of logistics, as in how to properly discipline or punish a sub, things do get a bit more complicated. And that’s why we’re devoting this entire book on how to play right and how to punish the sub so that she likes it, rather than the Dom abusing her and violating trust—the ultimate sin in the game of discipline. We’re also going to cover some of the more “fringe” topics of BDSM, including health risks, extreme pain, unique psychological states and how you as a sub can protect yourself. This will be of crucial interest to you as a sub or switch or Dom, since it’s best to understand the logistics and motivations of both roles before you fully submit. You may also discover that as you take precautions and grow in knowledge, more extreme practices may appeal to you. At the very least, you will always know what a Dom means by some of these code words and what they imply sexually or in punishment. It’s always a good idea to stay informed and never take chances—never assume anything! Because in BDSM, assuming anything of your Dom can be a big mistake. To get truly healthy and pleasurable BDSM experience, these are the topics you surely don't want to miss! |
| bdsm training a sub: Submissive Training Vol. 2 Elizabeth Cramer, 2015-03-06 Whether you have always dreamed about life in a collar or just discovered a desire to be sexually adventurous, there is a place for you in the fetish world of submission. The culture of kink, once thought to be limited to couples who wore leather pants and played slap-and-tickle in the bedroom, has grown into a varied and well defined umbrella for sexual identity. Because fetish culture, like all cultures, grows and changes with the people who practice it, there are distinct roles and categories that developed to help women define their preferences and find like-minded people and playmates. Women in BDSM relationships no longer have to start with the basic tenets of submission to wrap that skin around their differences. Now you can look into the whole spectrum of submissive behavior and find the place you feel most fulfilled and comfortable. From women who enjoy the occasional bondage session handcuffed to their headboard to the girls who want to be fed out of a bowl and locked in a crate at night – there is a place for everyone. In this Submissive Training guide we will look at twelve subcultures of submission (including the New Misogyny), explaining the overall principles and practices of each one and illustrating the pros and cons inherent in each style of sexual diversity. All people are different and you may not find one that covers everything you like, or don’t like – but chances are you’ll see something in one of these subcultures that makes you say, “That’s what I want.” |
| bdsm training a sub: Submissive's Guide to Bdsm Matthew Larocco, 2016-08-03 What does it really man to be a submissive, or sub? Much of what we see in BDSM practice, especially in the mainstream, focuses on how to become dominant and act like the ideal Dom or master, or Top. However, a lot of newcomers are confused as to how this works. They vaguely understand that the submissive or sub or slave is supposed to obey. But they don't understand the emotional dynamics, or how to act like the ideal sub, or even how to enjoy the experience. That's what this book is going to teach you: How to be a better sub, and have a happy & healthy BDSM lifestyle.--Back cover. |
| bdsm training a sub: The Advanced Dom's Guide To Submissive Training Elizabeth Cramer, In this advanced guide for Doms, we’re going to focus on becoming a “billionaire” type of Alpha Dom so that you can become more attractive to the subs you offer your services to. You are soon going to find out that money actually has nothing to do with the attraction the Dom builds with the sub. It’s all in personality, in posturing and in a certain way of thinking. We’re going to train you, Dom to Dom, how to activate that attraction and more importantly how to come across as a worldly-wise educator to a sub that needs someone strong, smart and creative in her life. By the time you finished this book you will be well on your way to become: - Alpha - Dominant - Valuable - Educated - Confident And the famous “billionaire” charm that will make you irresistible! |
| bdsm training a sub: Lessons in Submissive Speech Luna Carruthers, 2019-09-06 As a submissive, you may not know that there are a variety of approaches to the way you handle speaking to others. You need help from someone who's done it all before and can show you how to speak demurely and with a humble attitude. In this book, I will give you the tools you need to learn appropriate responses, how to address people and submissive speaking skills for a number of common situations. Learn and Develop Your Submissive Verbal Skills! Do you get in trouble constantly over how assertive and aggressive your speech is? Has your Dominant asked you to demand less and request more in how you ask for things? You can learn more humble, submissive speech with a few simple lessons!Lessons in Submissive Speech takes your interactions with Dominants, and others to the next level and it's perfect for you if you are: frustrated that your current use of language makes you sound bossy focused on understanding how you can improve and enhance your current power exchange relationship determined to learn more about speech protocol in an easy and unassuming way By the time you're finished, this book will have helped you: Be less assertive and aggressive in your everyday speech. Learn what slang and impoliteness can do to your interactions with others. Understand how to apologize... it's more than I'm sorry! Build a personal or relationship protocol around addressing other people, interacting with service persons and more. Explore how communication online is a whole different world. |
| bdsm training a sub: Hot to Trot C P Mandara, 2014-09-29 The viciously attractive Mark, with the unfaltering smile, has a day of endurance planned for Jenny that the devil himself would find challenging. His artful temperature play has her screaming, his anal dilators have her howling and a ride in the sybian's saddle leaves her virtually unconscious, but the day is far from over. A group of ladies, with wandering fingers, are given the task of transforming Jenny into a sweet, submissive pony girl who will be left looking 'hot to trot' in no time at all. After an exhausting day of training, Jenny has only escape or rescue on her mind. Alas, escape is rather difficult when you're naked, dressed in thigh high pony boots and have your hands immobilised in leather mittens which are clipped behind your back. Besides, escape isn't all that important - not when you're desperate for your next orgasm, it isn't. |
| bdsm training a sub: His Submissive (the Omnibus Collection) Ava Claire, 2012-12-04 Recent college grad Leila Montgomery has her sights set on Whitmore and Creighton, a PR agency for the rich and famous. She's determined to get her foot in the door by any means necessary--but she didn't count on accidentally mouthing off to the enigmatic billionaire at the helm of the company, Jacob Whitmore. After a hot tryst in the stairwell, Jacob makes Leila a proposition--be his personal assistant and private submissive. Saying no could cost her dream job and a place among the wealthy and elite. But saying yes could cost so much more...His Submissive (The Omnibus Collection) contains parts 1-4 of the Amazon best-selling series. |
| bdsm training a sub: Fantasies of a Young Submissive Rosaleen Young, 2014-08-12 Rosaleen Young's book of erotic stories and poetry is an intriguing insight into the secret world of a truly submissive teenage girl. The tales are a colourful journey of self-exploration and sexual-awakening. Although still a virgin in real life, the model/authoress (pictured on the book's cover) lets her fantasies run wild in her writing. Her obsession with her own body, particularly the perfection of her bottom, and craving for submission, punishment and the wilder side of sexual pleasure are addressed with vulnerable honesty and dizzying imagination. The stunning collection of photographs of the authoress compliments the writing to make this book a verbal and visual feast for both men and women. Dark, beautiful and intensely erotic! And Fantasies of a Young Submissive includes images capturing Rosaleen's radiant innocence |
| bdsm training a sub: SM 101 Jay Wiseman, 2011-11-22 100,000 COPIES IN PRINT! The long-taboo subject of consensual BDSM (bondage/discipline,dominance/submission, sadomasochism) is coming out of the closet - much to the delight of the millions of adults who enjoy engaging in bondage, spanking, erotic role-playing and similar consensual practices. With chapters on everything from partner-seeking to afterplay, including step-by-step guides to bondage, spanking, flagellation, roleplay, erotic torment and much more, Jay Wiseman's SM 101 has taught the fundamentals of safe, exciting SM to tens of thousands of people of all genders and orientations! If you want to read SM nonfiction that has a pulse and passion, that inspires as much as it instructs, SM 101 is the book for you. - Joseph Bean, Drummer |
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